Dating and relationships are not as easy as we think. The information that we accumulate from our various sources sometimes can get us caught up in mess. Break-ups can occur, long-term arguments can ensue and the blame game can be circulated in the relationship and love shouldn’t always be troublesome. Because these various sources usually cause relationship issues here are ten small suggestions to fix those pesky problems.
Top 10 Dating suggestions:
- Stop believing what other people are saying until you have checked and verified for yourself! As we all may know all of our friends are “relationship counselors” and though they may want the best for us they shouldn’t be our primary source. Things done in the dark will come to light.
- Stop searching for things to find because you WILL find it! It may not need to be there but if you’re constantly looking you SHALL find it! When in a relationship there shouldn’t be snooping around if you have a question ask it because snooping causes problems.
- Ladies Stop listening to your single friends! They are SINGLE! When they jump in a relationship then maybe… a Big MAYBE, you can listen to what they have to say but in the end it is still your relationship.
- Guys stop thinking your woman has boo-boo the fool written on her forehead! She knows, will know, or has already started doing the same infidelities you have began doing. Cheating causes numerous trust issues, self-esteem issues, and friendship issues between the two of you.
- Stop thinking your man is not as smart as you because nine times out of ten he’s is! Again all cheating is wrong. Communicate.
- Stop making excuses for why someone hasn’t called yet because if it’s right in front of your face maybe it’s the truth. That person may not have been very interested in what you have to offer. It’s their lost.
- If he or she doesn’t want to be in a relationship please leave the situation because after awhile it looks clingy and desperate and you have more potential to find another person. There are hundreds in Atlanta.
- Stop telling people you want to be in a relationship with them if you don’t want to be in a relationship! It will eliminate more broken hearts, trust me!
- Men if you truly like her treat her like she is to be the future wife you want not a play thing! She deserves the world! And if you treat her right you will receive the same.
- Both parties discuss your problems amongst yourself! Communication is key!
Those are the rules be sure to read them and apply them to your own life. Hey, tell a friend to read them we all need help!
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