It’s officially spring time and everyone should be setting aside time to dust off the items that have been ignored. Whether it is a house, attic, relationship, or you— we all have something we can improve. Things that we usually overlook it’s time that we stare directly at them and take off towards it and get what we want.
Most times we as working people busy ourselves with school, work, kids totally dismissing the things we want or need the most. We pamper our mates, feed, clothe, and bathe our children and always put off those new shoes we need and keep wearing the worn ones. Women walk by Macy’s staring at the much needed business suit but continue not to buy. Men pass by their favorite shoe stores wanting to purchase something but sacrifice for their family.
This spring I urge you to spring clean yourself. Do something that will inspire permanent change! When you make little adjustments bigger opportunities and more happiness will start arising. The first thing you can do is head out to one of Atlanta’s fabulous malls and get a makeover. Go and change the “normal” you. Try a new hairstyle or haircut. Test new and different makeup. Guys, start by adding different clothing style if you only wear urban wear. Seek out button downs, slacks, or cardigans this will give you a fresh look like a fresh day of spring.
Second thing that you can do is let go of unnecessary drama within your relationship. You and your lover can sit down and discuss some of the things that are hindering communication if any. Assess the complaints your lover offers and focus on a way to stop participating in them. Remember this is spring cleaning of self so focus less on the things your partner does to you and focus on how to alleviate the stress you put on your partner. Once you do this it will be natural for your partner to stop causing you stress.
The last thing you can do is exercise. Exercise is a way to give you inner strength and peace. It will tone the muscles you have been looking to improve, give you energy, and it will also give your partner something to talk about. Exercising is all about self empowerment against things that seem difficult make yourself a winner and work yourself out.
Finding and cleaning off yourself first is key to a better relationship. It will clear and focus your mind. Be sure that your body is a temple, your mind is a control system and you heart drives you on so people start cleaning!
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